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Mother’s Day is coming up and I want to tell all my Mama friends how awesome they are! Durex wants you to know this too! Durex and I want to help you spice things up for Mother’s Day…and every day really!
I was reading the results from the Durex Global Sexual Well-being Survey, which had 26,000 participants worldwide. The results show that a happy sex life directly translates to a happier overall well being. I have to totally agree with this statement. I know many couples that just don’t make time for sex and the relationships are struggling and honestly… fading out. Sex is an important part of a good healthy relationship…heck look at the Duggars! You know their doin’ it……..
I’m telling you….Sexy is Back! You can sign up for $25.00 in Durex coupons as well as a one time mini-magazine with relationship tips!
Author and sexologist, Dr. Sari Locker, offers the following tips for busy moms to enhance their relationships with their significant other on Mother’s Day:
- Remind me of the woman I was before I was a mother….the woman you lusted after.
- Create a sexy, spicy evening with the Durex Utopia gel – the latest and greatest “female arousal gel” which has been created and tested by women for women using a unique combination of ingredients designed to stimulate, increase desire and bring me intense sensation.
- “2 Minutes in Heaven” – Kiss me for two minutes without stopping. My lips, my neck, the base of my throat — don’t stop kissing me until the two minute egg timer buzzes. Two minutes will never have tasted so good.
- Re-create a sexy movie scene with you and me as the leads. Think “9 1/2 Weeks” and the refrigerator scene. Gather some grapes and berries and feed me one by one. Add in some Quiver from Durex — freezable lubricant cubes that melt into massage oil. The product is skin-tingling silky smooth pleasure packed in a cube. Use them over every inch of my body for icy cool massage or lubrication. Simply, freeze, apply and wait for meltdown…I might not remember that I’m a mom after this evening.
- Write me a love note — just a few thoughts will go a long way. Begin each sentence with “what I love about you most is…” Include three to five things you love about me as a woman. Forget flowers and candy — your words will fill my heart.
So about that sexy giveaway…..
Durex wants all you MomShells to spice things up and have been generous enough to let 5 of my readers get some awesome goodies!

Utopia – a new female orgasm enhancement gel. Utopia has been created and tested by women for women using a unique combination of ingredients designed to stimulate, increase desire and bring you intense sensation. It is packaged like a high-end cosmetic in a small, glass vial (not a cheesy bright purple XXX-looking tube) and more than 80% of users have shown to achieve positive results. (Retail price between $16.99 and $21.99)
Quiver – Think “9 1/2 Weeks” and the refrigerator scene. Quiver is a unique, freezable cube lube. Quiver is pure skin-quivering silky smooth pleasure, packed in a cube. Use them over every inch of the body for icy, tingling massage or lubrication. Simply freeze, apply and wait for meltdown… (Retail price $6.99)
Like I said, 5 readers will win! Each winner will receive two products (Utopia & Quiver).
All you need to do to enter is give me some reading material (a comment on this post) telling me how you keep your relationship spicy! Do you get a sitter and check into a hotel for a weekend? Watch a lovey dovey movie together? Listen to music, whisper sweet nothings? Share it with your fellow MomShells!
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Giveaway will end on Thursday April 30th. Comments will be locked and I will announce the winners May 1st. I will email you and you must email me back with your shipping info.
Good luck and remember….you are AWESOME!
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Um.. I’m not in a relationship…
But I have a spicy life…
sending “dirty” texts keeps the spark glowing.. just to say.. “I’m thinking about you”…
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once the bedroom door shuts, I’m never the same person……bring on the lube yo….:)
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This may sound lame to some but my husband just take all of the moments we can get together AWAY from our boys 🙂 The little time we do get makes those times pretty spicy 😉
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Just a glance letting him know that once the kids are in bed he’s in for it is all I have to do. A couple hours of those ‘glances’ and we’re ready to go come 11!
To keep the spark alive my husband and I have dates, we take the tim eto spend alone enjoying eachothers company. When you have kds, and day to day family life, it is nice to remind eachother, why we picked them in the first place. Sometimes we’ll just have dinner, or a movie, or go out to a bar. This last weekend my man actually attended a roller derby w/ me, after much cajoling … it was fun!
Sometimes we ignite the spark, simply by giving eachother a foot rub or massage.. it usually leads to alot more,lol!!!!
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I let my husband know what I want. It’s really fun and easy.
We experiment and make love in different places all the time. Last week we went camping and had our own private party by a waterfall. The chemistry is still there & it just keeps getting better. 😉
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We make sure we head to bed at the same time. Even if all we do is cuddle. Spending time together makes all the difference.
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it works!
we have nighttime picnics in bed with the door closed- late at night
Role-playing!
We try to keep it new, and fresh.
I wish I had a sitter more than I do, but that’s not easy. We go out for drinks and book a hotel or wait for the kids to go to sleep and have our fun ; ). Toys are great also!!
We flirt with each other and let our wishes be known before we ever get to the bedroom.
We drop the kids off at their Aunty’s and date like we did many years ago.
My dh and I have 6 kids so it is important to take time for dates each week. Sometimes we go out to eat and other times it is just a simple walk.
My sister watches my son so my husband and I can have our date nights. We like to go to dinner or a concert and then take the fun home. Thanks for the chance.
We go to bed at the same time every night (and have done so for the past six years!) and there’s no tv in our room! Sometimes we read and sometimes we turn out the lights, talk about our days and….well, you know. And we experiment with different products – these would be great to try!
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The children do sleep, and there are locks on the bedroom doors. So, there’s no reason to get rid of them to have time together. We also don’t need anything to get ourselves going. It’s wherever and whenever each opportunity arises.
By trying to be respectful and appreciative every day.
It seems like we are always playing “graba$$”. LOL, it’s always fun to feel like we are still new lovers even though we’ve been together for 10 years. 🙂
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My husband and I like to go to a hotel that has themed rooms at least twice a year to keep the spark alive and of course we get a sitter for the kids for the weekend.
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My husband and I have secret code words for various things we like to do with eachother in private. They seem innocent enough in conversation that we can talk about things we want to do while trying to get the kids fed and bathed and in bed for the night. I helps build the excitement for when they are finally asleep and we can finally have some adult time (if we still have the energy LOL)
We like to take advantage of any time we have… no time alone at home? No problem, we’ll make due with the car ride!
We like to take a weekend trip once a month.
role playing always keeps things interesting
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we take trips to local hotels that have jacuzzi suites;)
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try new positions all the time!
Even though we don’t have kids at home anymore we try to plan a night out at a hotel a couple of times a year. It doesn’t even have to be a far drive. Our local Marriott has a night out with a $25 gift card to the Outback Steakhouse that is next to the hotel. There are many hotels that have these kinds of deals. Thanks for the giveaway.
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i hear Nature calling 😉 the Utopia sure sounds interesting 🙂
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We have a night out every couple months where someone keeps the kids over night for us. It really helps keeps things exciting, just like it was when we were kidless! It also helps to have some ummmm..toys when we arent allowed to get a sitter! LOL
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We like to go to concerts. After a great night of loud music and meeting new people we are ready to go home and rock the night away some more:)
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Having 2 kids right up around us it’s kind of hard for us to realy have time together Fri. are good because he’s off work and their in school : )
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We send our daughter to Grandma’s for the weekend.
Thank you for a great giveaway! I would love to win. We like to keep things spicy by flirting through the day. THank you!
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I have SOOO wanted to try these products!
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We take weekend trips whenever we can 🙂
Thanks for the chance to spice up the next one!
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Just happy to get away from the dogs…
It’s the little things that keep things hot, the things only you know about and can do for your partner. If things go well, it is reciprocated.
I call it the power max. But any plug-in vibrator works for my single satisfaction.
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we take road trips occasionally and always remember to bring our dvd player and a nice dirty movie!
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My husband and I have a journal that we write to each other in. We never know when the other will write, so it’s always a nice surprise!!
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My hubby and I like to have regular date nights that end up being quite spicy. 🙂 I’ve been wanting to try Utopia so I hope I’m a winner!
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My husband and I Try different ideas, toys and techniques. But we keep it spicy all through the day even after 15 years!
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We like to kiss and touch a lot throughout the day, which keeps us very interested for the evening after the kids are asleep!
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We talk openly about our fantasies and act out the bestones
unfortunately, we don’t have any ways we keep things spicy, which is why this giveaway is perfect for us!
I pretty much start the day by leering at him, and telling him how hot he is. During the day, I text him something naughty once or twice. It keeps it fun, and he seems to really enjoy the attention and the signals that I want him.
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Husband and I have dinner alone, and snuggle on the couch in the evenings.
Our thing is that we go to bed at the same time every night. We’ve done this for six years and, so far (even with kids) we haven’t had to stop doing that. We usually hug and talk about our day, then read or…do other things 🙂 But sometimes at the end of the day, that five minutes if the most I get to talk to him or hug him – so it’s very important. Thanks for the opportunity 🙂
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We like to kiss and touch a lot throughout the day!
We definitely try to get away to a hotel every once in a while! Having two preschoolers makes life hectic and there’s not always time for romance, so it helps to eliminate distractions and focus only on each other. I wish we could take weekends away more often!
Two words…sensual massages. Plus we flirt with each other throughout the day. I’ll give him the look which will normally lead to an “afternoon delight”. Those kind of unscheduled appointments make the workday go so much smoother. 🙂
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