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A Sexy Giveaway For All You MomShells!

04.23.2009 by Girl on Fire //

Comments have been closed and a winner will be announced.

Mother’s Day is coming up and I want to tell all my Mama friends how awesome they are!  Durex wants you to know this too!  Durex and I want to help you spice things up for Mother’s Day…and every day really!

FishnetsI was reading the results from the Durex Global Sexual Well-being Survey, which had 26,000 participants worldwide.  The results show that a happy sex life directly translates to a happier overall well being.  I have to totally agree with this statement.  I know many couples that just don’t make time for sex and the relationships are struggling and honestly… fading out.  Sex is an important part of a good healthy relationship…heck look at the Duggars!  You know their doin’ it……..

I’m telling you….Sexy is Back!  You can sign up for $25.00 in Durex coupons as well as a one time mini-magazine with relationship tips!

Author and sexologist, Dr. Sari Locker, offers the following tips for busy moms to enhance their relationships with their significant other on Mother’s Day:Juicy Red Lips

  1. Remind me of the woman I was before I was a mother….the woman you lusted after.
  2. Create a sexy, spicy evening with the Durex Utopia gel – the latest and greatest “female arousal gel” which has been created and tested by women for women using a unique combination of ingredients designed to stimulate, increase desire and bring me intense sensation.
  3. “2 Minutes in Heaven” – Kiss me for two minutes without stopping. My lips, my neck, the base of my throat — don’t stop kissing me until the two minute egg timer buzzes. Two minutes will never have tasted so good.
  4. Re-create a sexy movie scene with you and me as the leads.  Think “9 1/2 Weeks” and the refrigerator scene.  Gather some grapes and berries and feed me one by one.  Add in some Quiver from Durex — freezable lubricant cubes that melt into massage oil.  The product is skin-tingling silky smooth pleasure packed in a cube.   Use them over every inch of my body for icy cool massage or lubrication.  Simply, freeze, apply and wait for meltdown…I might not remember that I’m a mom after this evening.
  5. Write me a love note — just a few thoughts will go a long way. Begin each sentence with “what I love about you most is…” Include three to five things you love about me as a woman. Forget flowers and candy — your words will fill my heart.

So about that sexy giveaway…..

Durex wants all you MomShells to spice things up and have been generous enough to let 5 of my readers get some awesome goodies!

Durex Utopia
Utopia – a new female orgasm enhancement gel.  Utopia has been created and tested by women for women using a unique combination of ingredients designed to stimulate, increase desire and bring you intense sensation.  It is packaged like a high-end cosmetic in a small, glass vial (not a cheesy bright purple XXX-looking tube) and more than 80% of users have shown to achieve positive results. (Retail price between $16.99 and $21.99)Durex Quiver

Quiver – Think “9 1/2 Weeks” and the refrigerator scene.   Quiver is a unique, freezable cube lube.  Quiver is pure skin-quivering silky smooth pleasure, packed in a cube.  Use them over every inch of the body for icy, tingling massage or lubrication. Simply freeze, apply and wait for meltdown… (Retail price $6.99)

Like I said, 5 readers will win! Each winner will receive two products (Utopia & Quiver).

All you need to do to enter is give me some reading material (a comment on this post) telling me how you keep your relationship spicy!  Do you get a sitter and check into a hotel for a weekend?  Watch a lovey dovey movie together?  Listen to music, whisper sweet nothings?  Share it with your fellow MomShells!

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Giveaway will end on Thursday April 30th. Comments will be locked and I will announce the winners May 1st. I will email you and you must email me back with your shipping info.

Good luck and remember….you are AWESOME!

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Categories // Contests Tags // Durex, enhancing your relationship, love life, Moms are sexy, momshell, quiver, sexy, spicing up your love life, utopia

Comments

  1. Misti says

    April 24, 2009 at 6:59 am

    Um.. I’m not in a relationship…
    But I have a spicy life…
    sending “dirty” texts keeps the spark glowing.. just to say.. “I’m thinking about you”…

  2. Misti says

    April 24, 2009 at 7:51 am

    Posted on Twitter!!

  3. Misti says

    April 24, 2009 at 7:52 am

    Posted on myspace

  4. xxxvolc0mxchikxx says

    April 24, 2009 at 8:15 am

    oooooh, I like this one…..

    how I keep it spicy…..

    once the bedroom door shuts, I’m never the same person……bring on the lube yo….:)

  5. red says

    April 24, 2009 at 8:32 am

    posted on my space…lol…i want my gal to have this

  6. Nan says

    April 24, 2009 at 8:55 am

    This may sound lame to some but my husband just take all of the moments we can get together AWAY from our boys 🙂 The little time we do get makes those times pretty spicy 😉

    Thank You
    Nan

  7. Darcy says

    April 24, 2009 at 8:56 am

    Just a glance letting him know that once the kids are in bed he’s in for it is all I have to do. A couple hours of those ‘glances’ and we’re ready to go come 11!

  8. Kristi says

    April 24, 2009 at 9:44 am

    To keep the spark alive my husband and I have dates, we take the tim eto spend alone enjoying eachothers company. When you have kds, and day to day family life, it is nice to remind eachother, why we picked them in the first place. Sometimes we’ll just have dinner, or a movie, or go out to a bar. This last weekend my man actually attended a roller derby w/ me, after much cajoling … it was fun!
    Sometimes we ignite the spark, simply by giving eachother a foot rub or massage.. it usually leads to alot more,lol!!!!

  9. Theresa says

    April 24, 2009 at 10:44 am

    ahhh… sexy sexy … can’t really comment on the sex life stuff at this time..haha!
    But this is a great product for couples needing to revive that (POW!) in the bedroom..

    I blogged about this awesome giveaway.

    http://nerdyconfession.blogspot.com/

  10. Jill says

    April 24, 2009 at 11:55 am

    I let my husband know what I want. It’s really fun and easy.

  11. Joanne A says

    April 24, 2009 at 1:34 pm

    We experiment and make love in different places all the time. Last week we went camping and had our own private party by a waterfall. The chemistry is still there & it just keeps getting better. 😉

  12. Joanne A says

    April 24, 2009 at 1:41 pm

    Just subscribed! 😉

  13. Julie says

    April 24, 2009 at 4:02 pm

    We make sure we head to bed at the same time. Even if all we do is cuddle. Spending time together makes all the difference.

    Julie’s last blog post..(Sort of) WW: How could anybody say no?

  14. Mary Casper says

    April 24, 2009 at 4:19 pm

    weekly dates, no tvs, no kids, no dogs
    it works!

  15. MRS.MOMMYY says

    April 24, 2009 at 5:51 pm

    we have nighttime picnics in bed with the door closed- late at night

  16. Angela says

    April 24, 2009 at 10:44 pm

    Role-playing!

  17. Joanna says

    April 25, 2009 at 12:42 am

    We try to keep it new, and fresh.

  18. kristi blackstone says

    April 25, 2009 at 1:55 am

    I wish I had a sitter more than I do, but that’s not easy. We go out for drinks and book a hotel or wait for the kids to go to sleep and have our fun ; ). Toys are great also!!

  19. Belinda says

    April 25, 2009 at 3:58 am

    We flirt with each other and let our wishes be known before we ever get to the bedroom.

  20. Denyse says

    April 25, 2009 at 5:06 am

    We drop the kids off at their Aunty’s and date like we did many years ago.

  21. Aubrey B says

    April 25, 2009 at 5:58 am

    My dh and I have 6 kids so it is important to take time for dates each week. Sometimes we go out to eat and other times it is just a simple walk.

  22. Ellen C. says

    April 25, 2009 at 7:04 am

    My sister watches my son so my husband and I can have our date nights. We like to go to dinner or a concert and then take the fun home. Thanks for the chance.

  23. Courtney says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:12 am

    We go to bed at the same time every night (and have done so for the past six years!) and there’s no tv in our room! Sometimes we read and sometimes we turn out the lights, talk about our days and….well, you know. And we experiment with different products – these would be great to try!

    annasmama0702@gmail.com

  24. Courtney says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:13 am

    I’m a subscriber!

    annasmama0702@gmail.com

  25. Courtney says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:13 am

    I’m following you on Twitter!

    annasmama0702@gmail.com

  26. Courtney says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:14 am

    I stumbled your site!

    annasmama0702

  27. Denise B. says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:31 am

    The children do sleep, and there are locks on the bedroom doors. So, there’s no reason to get rid of them to have time together. We also don’t need anything to get ourselves going. It’s wherever and whenever each opportunity arises.

  28. Denise says

    April 25, 2009 at 11:05 am

    By trying to be respectful and appreciative every day.

  29. Sky says

    April 25, 2009 at 11:40 am

    It seems like we are always playing “graba$$”. LOL, it’s always fun to feel like we are still new lovers even though we’ve been together for 10 years. 🙂

    seeryusfam@msn.com

    Sky’s last blog post..Keep Me Review – Treat Mama this Mother’s Day!

  30. Melissa Barnes says

    April 25, 2009 at 12:18 pm

    My husband and I like to go to a hotel that has themed rooms at least twice a year to keep the spark alive and of course we get a sitter for the kids for the weekend.

  31. Melissa Barnes says

    April 25, 2009 at 12:20 pm

    i just signed up to get your newletter and subscribed!

  32. Kate says

    April 25, 2009 at 1:31 pm

    My husband and I have secret code words for various things we like to do with eachother in private. They seem innocent enough in conversation that we can talk about things we want to do while trying to get the kids fed and bathed and in bed for the night. I helps build the excitement for when they are finally asleep and we can finally have some adult time (if we still have the energy LOL)

  33. Lori Walker says

    April 25, 2009 at 1:37 pm

    We like to take advantage of any time we have… no time alone at home? No problem, we’ll make due with the car ride!

  34. Dawn says

    April 25, 2009 at 4:55 pm

    We like to take a weekend trip once a month.

  35. christopher h says

    April 25, 2009 at 6:14 pm

    role playing always keeps things interesting

  36. Djp says

    April 25, 2009 at 7:57 pm

    sign me up

  37. valerie m says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:42 pm

    got to make fun a priority 🙂

  38. valerie m says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:42 pm

    subscribe

  39. valerie m says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:43 pm

    http://twitter.com/valerie2350/status/1618612012

  40. valerie m says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:44 pm

    stumble
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  41. valerie m says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:46 pm

    http://sweeps4bloggers.blogspot.com/2009/04/notyouraveragemama-durex-giveaway-43009.html

  42. Jessica A says

    April 25, 2009 at 9:52 pm

    we take trips to local hotels that have jacuzzi suites;)
    imjessica(at)mail(dot)com

  43. Erica C. says

    April 26, 2009 at 5:11 am

    try new positions all the time!

  44. Karen M says

    April 26, 2009 at 9:33 am

    Even though we don’t have kids at home anymore we try to plan a night out at a hotel a couple of times a year. It doesn’t even have to be a far drive. Our local Marriott has a night out with a $25 gift card to the Outback Steakhouse that is next to the hotel. There are many hotels that have these kinds of deals. Thanks for the giveaway.

  45. Autumn H. says

    April 26, 2009 at 11:40 am

    we use costumes =)

    autumn398 (at) yahoo.com

  46. Claudia says

    April 26, 2009 at 2:38 pm

    i hear Nature calling 😉 the Utopia sure sounds interesting 🙂
    thanks

  47. Claudia says

    April 26, 2009 at 2:39 pm

    i just subscribed 🙂

  48. Lori says

    April 26, 2009 at 6:10 pm

    We have a night out every couple months where someone keeps the kids over night for us. It really helps keeps things exciting, just like it was when we were kidless! It also helps to have some ummmm..toys when we arent allowed to get a sitter! LOL

    Lori’s last blog post..Disappearing Act?!

  49. Lori says

    April 26, 2009 at 6:11 pm

    I subscribe

    Lori’s last blog post..Disappearing Act?!

  50. Lori says

    April 26, 2009 at 6:11 pm

    I follow you on twitter

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  51. Lori says

    April 26, 2009 at 6:12 pm

    I have your button on my blog!

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  52. crystal says

    April 26, 2009 at 7:18 pm

    We like to go to concerts. After a great night of loud music and meeting new people we are ready to go home and rock the night away some more:)

  53. crystal says

    April 26, 2009 at 7:19 pm

    I am a new subscriber

  54. Lori Barnes says

    April 26, 2009 at 7:39 pm

    Having 2 kids right up around us it’s kind of hard for us to realy have time together Fri. are good because he’s off work and their in school : )
    photoquest(at)bellsouth(dot)net

  55. Lori Barnes says

    April 26, 2009 at 7:39 pm

    I am also a subscriber
    photoquest(at)bellsouth(dot)net

  56. Jennifer G says

    April 26, 2009 at 8:44 pm

    I like to use toys..

  57. Jennifer G says

    April 26, 2009 at 8:47 pm

    I follow you on twitter and I tweeted.
    TX_Jen1634

  58. Jennifer Greene says

    April 26, 2009 at 8:48 pm

    i subscribed.

  59. Lori says

    April 27, 2009 at 5:27 am

    Blogged about it!

    http://txmykindarain.blogspot.com/2009/04/momshells-giveaway.html

  60. Jennifer M says

    April 27, 2009 at 9:45 am

    We send our daughter to Grandma’s for the weekend.

  61. beth shepherd says

    April 27, 2009 at 10:54 am

    Thank you for a great giveaway! I would love to win. We like to keep things spicy by flirting through the day. THank you!
    tatertot374@sbcglobal.net

  62. Amy S says

    April 27, 2009 at 11:53 am

    I have SOOO wanted to try these products!

  63. Amy S says

    April 27, 2009 at 11:57 am

    Posted on Twitter!!

  64. Amy S says

    April 27, 2009 at 11:57 am

    Subscribe to Not So Average Mama!

  65. ktanjatk says

    April 27, 2009 at 4:34 pm

    We take weekend trips whenever we can 🙂
    Thanks for the chance to spice up the next one!

  66. Tam says

    April 27, 2009 at 6:13 pm

    I subscribed!

  67. Cary G says

    April 27, 2009 at 8:05 pm

    Just happy to get away from the dogs…

  68. Chris says

    April 28, 2009 at 3:45 pm

    It’s the little things that keep things hot, the things only you know about and can do for your partner. If things go well, it is reciprocated.

  69. Cynthia Shern says

    April 28, 2009 at 6:37 pm

    I call it the power max. But any plug-in vibrator works for my single satisfaction.

    Cynthia Shern’s last blog post..Why is there not a modern phone for patients at the VA Hospital?

  70. Misti says

    April 29, 2009 at 8:25 am

    I technoratied it.. I think 🙂

  71. Sarah says

    April 29, 2009 at 8:56 am

    we take road trips occasionally and always remember to bring our dvd player and a nice dirty movie!

  72. Tori :) says

    April 29, 2009 at 9:13 am

    Ok- how did I miss this giveaway??
    My husband and I have a journal that we write to each other in. We never know when the other will write, so it’s always a nice surprise!!

    Tori :)’s last blog post..My teen really IS sweet. He just doesn’t look that way.

  73. Tori :) says

    April 29, 2009 at 9:17 am

    I emailed it and sent you a cc.

    Tori :)’s last blog post..My teen really IS sweet. He just doesn’t look that way.

  74. Mrs. Leonard says

    April 29, 2009 at 11:02 am

    My hubby and I like to have regular date nights that end up being quite spicy. 🙂 I’ve been wanting to try Utopia so I hope I’m a winner!

  75. Mrs. Leonard says

    April 29, 2009 at 11:04 am

    I stumbled your post.

  76. Cynthia Mercado says

    April 29, 2009 at 4:50 pm

    My husband and I Try different ideas, toys and techniques. But we keep it spicy all through the day even after 15 years!

    mercsmercado at yahoo dot com

  77. Sonya says

    April 29, 2009 at 11:42 pm

    We like to kiss and touch a lot throughout the day, which keeps us very interested for the evening after the kids are asleep!

  78. Miranda Allen says

    April 30, 2009 at 12:04 am

    I buy a new piece of lingerie or a new toy every week

    Miranda Allen’s last blog post..I am thankful today

  79. Ashley G. says

    April 30, 2009 at 12:09 am

    I like trying new things!

  80. Jennifer gersch says

    April 30, 2009 at 1:40 am

    We talk openly about our fantasies and act out the bestones

  81. sandra says

    April 30, 2009 at 9:54 am

    unfortunately, we don’t have any ways we keep things spicy, which is why this giveaway is perfect for us!

  82. sito says

    April 30, 2009 at 1:46 pm

    I pretty much start the day by leering at him, and telling him how hot he is. During the day, I text him something naughty once or twice. It keeps it fun, and he seems to really enjoy the attention and the signals that I want him.

  83. sito says

    April 30, 2009 at 1:49 pm

    Twitter follower & tweeted – http://twitter.com/sito50/status/1662951873

  84. sito says

    April 30, 2009 at 1:54 pm

    Blogged, http://sitosfunstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/durex-giveaway-at-not-your-average-mama.html

  85. sito says

    April 30, 2009 at 1:55 pm

    Subscribed.

  86. sito says

    April 30, 2009 at 1:56 pm

    Snagged your awesome button – http://sitosfunstuff.blogspot.com/

  87. Beverley Justice says

    April 30, 2009 at 2:07 pm

    Husband and I have dinner alone, and snuggle on the couch in the evenings.

  88. Courtney says

    April 30, 2009 at 3:46 pm

    Our thing is that we go to bed at the same time every night. We’ve done this for six years and, so far (even with kids) we haven’t had to stop doing that. We usually hug and talk about our day, then read or…do other things 🙂 But sometimes at the end of the day, that five minutes if the most I get to talk to him or hug him – so it’s very important. Thanks for the opportunity 🙂

    annasmama0702@gmail.com

  89. Courtney says

    April 30, 2009 at 3:47 pm

    I’m a subscriber

    annasmama0702@gmail.com

  90. Courtney says

    April 30, 2009 at 3:47 pm

    I’m following you on twitter (annasmama0702)

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  91. Courtney says

    April 30, 2009 at 3:48 pm

    I stumbled this post (annasmama0702)

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  92. Courtney says

    April 30, 2009 at 3:49 pm

    I favorited your blog on technorati (annasmama0702)

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  93. Courtney says

    April 30, 2009 at 3:52 pm

    I digg your post (annasmama0702)

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  94. Amy says

    April 30, 2009 at 4:59 pm

    We like to kiss and touch a lot throughout the day!

  95. Stephanie says

    April 30, 2009 at 5:29 pm

    We definitely try to get away to a hotel every once in a while! Having two preschoolers makes life hectic and there’s not always time for romance, so it helps to eliminate distractions and focus only on each other. I wish we could take weekends away more often!

  96. Kelli Claypool says

    April 30, 2009 at 7:05 pm

    Two words…sensual massages. Plus we flirt with each other throughout the day. I’ll give him the look which will normally lead to an “afternoon delight”. Those kind of unscheduled appointments make the workday go so much smoother. 🙂

    Kelli Claypool’s last blog post..Moms Are Sexy Too!

  97. Rosanne says

    April 30, 2009 at 9:03 pm

    We find unusual locations

  98. Rosanne says

    April 30, 2009 at 9:04 pm

    I’m a subscriber

  99. Rosanne says

    April 30, 2009 at 9:07 pm

    I e-mailed my friends and cc’d you about the giveaway

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