I belong to a few support groups for RSD/CRPS on Facebook. A woman local to me had joined one of these groups. She said (her wording) “Do you think it is fair to upset , horrify our young babies that won’t truly understand any of it . All they see is mommy crying non stop . To me that is being a selfish parent .”
I think she is wrong. She was talking about “hiding” her pain, illness and feelings from her friends and family.
To me this wrong.
I talk about RSD all the time to everyone. From people I meet as well as through this blog. It is important for people to know about RSD. You never know who you could be helping.
I refused most treatments and still to this day I am without pain meds for RSD. Instead I joined a Roller Derby rec team, then I began coaching with the Jr. Derby little ones called Weebellions. RSD took a lot from me, but it also opened up other doors.
To me hiding the truth of LIFE is selfish. Life isn’t always perfect. RSD sucks yea…but you know what….we’re still living.
I would like to think that my children have a stronger compassion and understanding of things people go through.
I am in a major flare right now. My girls know this. We still live a normal life. I still function, just differently than before. My kids are amazing, I do not think that being aware of my RSD has damaged them in anyway. I truly believe that seeing me fight through it will make them stronger people.
Quit hiding the truth from children, they are people..human. In fact I think we should all sit back and let them take the lead….we just might be better off…
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