I’m going to put this out there for all parents.
If your child is a bully and they mess with my kid, take this as a warning. My kid has just been given the talk. This talk is not about sex or drugs…this talk is about kicking ass.
If your child comes at my child in a bullying matter saying she is going to punch her, talking crap to her and being mean..this is what will happen from this day forward…
My child will give your child one..I repeat ONE warning. If the bully decides she is going to push the limit, then be fully prepared and know that my child will defend herself.
My child has full permission to defend herself. She knows now that she will not get in trouble for defending herself. Now this does not mean I have given my child free range to fight…this means she CAN and WILL defend herself if needed. She will not be a victim!
My child will be the better person by giving them a warning. But this is it. No more! I will not make my child suffer the wrath of a bully. Bullies are COWARDS! They have low self esteem and pick on others so they can seem cool. Once confronted a bully will usually back down and this is what I expect will happen in this situation. If however, they choose to strike my child, know that she will fight back and she will kick ass….just sayin’.
It really sucks that I have to say this. My child is nice as can be to everyone she meets. She goes out of her way to be nice to people. I’m sorry if it’s uncool to be a good kid and act your age. My daughter will not act immature and dress inappropriately. She is better than that. She is intelligent and has a larger vocabulary than most kids her age can grasp. So these kids deem that as uncool behavior. Whatever.
My kid is cool and I’m cooler than yer mama!
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OH, well if violence is in the situation then absolutely yes, I agree we have taught our boys that they stick up for themselves. If anyone hits them they have every right to hit back. But we have taught them to never throw the first punch. You can always walk away from words. But I think telling your child that you can fight first sends a message that fighting with hands is ok. But I am all for defending yourself. They were also taught that they are to defend their little sister.
.-= Joy Taylor´s last blog ..Mono Monday =-.
No, I’m not encouraging violence, just the fact that she CAN and WILL defend herself ” If however, they choose to strike my child, know that she will fight back and she will kick ass….just sayin’.”. I truly believe that once she speaks up and confronts them that they will back off.
i understand… i was picked on a lot as a kid by people who wished to make my life hell by just being mean! I never ever fought back and maybe should have… i will teach my daughter the same thing since to me, you should never fight to fight, but if someone starts it feel free to protect yourself!
LOL…that’s too funny because my best friend was just telling me today that her friend told her own daughter that if she heard someone started something with her and she didn’t beat the kid’s ass then she would get her own ass beat!
I am behind you %100! I’m going to share this with my friend…
.-= Sarah´s last blog ..The Diary of an Angry Fat Woman May 3, 2010 =-.
Yep, we’ve taught our son to stand up for himself too. Our rule is NEVER start it, but go ahead and finish it.
.-= Amanda´s last blog ..They Don’t Even Hold the Sign Anymore =-.
Damn straight! I refuse to allow my child to be victimized. In this day and age, you know, the days of Bully-cide, my child has every right to stand up for themself. And if the bully(ies) wont back off, an ass kickin is in their near future. And I dont care who agrees or disagrees!