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After The Honeymoon

Sunday, July 19th, 2009

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WINNERS:

Comments #9, 11 and 15!

pregvideoboxFast forward a few months after that honeymoon…you suddenly feel ill, tired and your boobs hurt.  You’re pregnant! Yep, you are!

As the weeks go by, you get bigger and bigger.  So big that you can never get comfortable and to even consider sex?  Forget it, right?  Actually you don’t have to forget it!  There are ways to make it work!

As a mom (that has been pregnant three times) I know that there are ways to make it work.  Figuring it all out was a little difficult and frustrating though.  Recently I was able to review a DVD from the Sinclair Intimacy Institute.  It is called “The Better Sex Guide To Sex & Pregnancy: Connected & Loving It!“.  I was not sure what to expect.  I was very surprised at how professional and tastefully this video was made.  It is not anything like a cheese ball porno.  It was actually real couples talking and actually demonstrating different methods and positions that make it easier on both the Husband and the Wife.

They have 2 versions of this DVD.  They have the explicit sex ed version, as well as the non-explicit, no nudity version. The non-explicit version is called “Your Sexual Pregnancy: Sexy Connected & Loving It!“.  I watched the explicit version and as I stated I was amazed at how tasteful it was.  I didn’t get any weirdness from watching it.  J watched part of it too and he wasn’t even inclined to make a joke of it.  That says a lot right there.  I felt it was very informative and educational.  This would be a great thing for any pregnant couple.

The Sinclair Institute is the leading provider of sexual health products and education for adults who want to improve the quality of the intimacy in their relationships.

The topics are presented in a way that is recommended by therapists.  I promise you will not feel “dirty” from watching it.  I am not a porno person and this is definitely not on the same lines as porn. If it had been I would tell you that this is just porn.  It’s not!  It’s a great tool to help you through your pregnancy and keep the spark alive through this wonderful time in your life.

“Despite the abundance of the information and guidance that exists for pregnant couples, an educational gap still exists in the area of sexual intimacy,” Coleman said.  “By promoting intimacy during pregnancy, these videos can strengthen a couple’s bond during an already joyous time in their lives.”

The Sinclair Institute was founded in 1991 and provides accurate and engaging information that supports the sexual relationships of healthy, individuals and couples.

I wish I had access to this years ago during my pregnancies!  It would have saved me a lot of discomfort and headache! I am a mom and I really think as a pregnant woman you will enjoy having this information.  You can watch them by yourself or with your partner.  It will make you feel more comfortable and ease your mind about concerns you have.  It will also dispel some myths you may have heard about sex and pregnancy as well.

Research Says: Have Sex!

Research shows that couples who are proactive about sex during pregnancy have a better chance of maintaining their sex lives post-pregnancy. A 1988 German study by Heinig and Engler found that couples who enjoyed sexual activity during pregnancy evaluated their relationship more positively four months after delivery when it came to tenderness and communication than those couples who didn’t share any mutual sexual pleasures during pregnancy.

Those making an effort to stay sexually connected during all three trimesters only stand to realize more sexual satisfaction both during pregnancy and after the baby arrives. In many ways, pleasure and satisfaction can be greater than ever dreamt possible. A 1999 meta-analysis conducted by Dr. Kirsten von Sydow showed that mutual happiness decreases greatly after the birth of a couple’s first child, with sexual intimacy especially vulnerable. For those having trouble getting past any issues they have with sex during pregnancy, know that it’s perfectly healthy to maintain your passion pursuits. As stated in Childbirth Education: Practice, Research, and Theory, many expectant couples get experimental, changing sexual positions and trying new forms of pleasuring, e.g., sex games.

As you navigate Sinclair’s information on pregnant sex, it is our hope that the next nine months will be the most rewarding and fulfilling possible. We are here to help you meet each other’s needs and realize mutual pleasuring and enjoyment during this time. We hope that our website and video will help in making this wonderful time in your lives that much more magnificent, extraordinary, and sexually, sensually fused. We wish you the best in your pregnant sex adventures!

The Sinclair Intimacy Institute wants to give 3 readers their own copy! They are being very generous in giving 3 copies! They retail for $29.95 each.

Main Entry: Check out their website and leave a comment here about some information or product that you found there.

Bonus Entries: You must complete the main entry first!  Then leave a new comment for each entry!

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This giveaway will end August 19, 2009!

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Dream Day Wedding Game Review and Giveaway

Friday, July 17th, 2009

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The winner is comment number 27!

dreamdayweddingvivalasvegasI was sent a copy of this new game called Dream Day Wedding Viva Las Vegas.  I’m not much of a gamer, but this one reeled me in and I couldn’t stop playing.  I liked it because you had to look for clues and solve things.  Totally something I like to do.  In the game you are the Wedding Planner.  You have all of these tasks to complete in order to pull off the perfect wedding.

Vegas is the site of the wedding, you get to explore this exciting Hidden Object masterpiece. You must juggle the important tasks of taking care of the wedding while seeking the perfect items to pull it off.  You will be faced with obstacles you must overcome and manage the demands of a high-rolling couple, and mother of the bride.  I even got to play Blackjack!

You can find and earn Palladium points to purchase extravagant decorations, design custom wedding accessories and choose the honeymoon location.

  • poolComplete over 60 immersive wedding challenges in 29 vibrant locations.
  • Find over 1000 hidden items in up to 10 variations of the Seek & Find gameplay.
  • Earn Palladium Points to purchase elegant and custom accessories to plan an extravagant affair.
  • Try your luck in the casino! Win big to increase your wedding budget.
  • Master more mini-games, adventure & escape puzzles and wedding crisis levels than ever before!

Dream Day games have been entertaining PC audiences since February 2007. With over 60 million downloads, fans of the first four romantic adventures have made Dream Day one of the most successful series of seek & find games ever created.  I-Play delivers another signature experience through gorgeously detailed backgrounds, and keeps the series fresh by introducing a new couple with an exciting new story. With challenging puzzles and adventures around every corner, Dream Day Wedding: Viva Las Vegas hits the jackpot by including all of
this and more!

Want to win your own copy?  One reader will!

Main Entry: Tell me what was the most difficult part of planning your wedding!

Bonus Entries: You must complete the main entry before any bonus entries. Please leave a comment for each entry.

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This giveaway will end August 27, 2009

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Tres Sleek Giveaway!

Friday, July 17th, 2009

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cropI’ve been posting about Tres Sleek shapewear and letting you know about all the awesome stuff they have.  Well, I’m going to tell you about two more of their items.  Then I’m going to tell you about the Tres Sleek giveaway!

The TankTeeni is the latest addition to the BRAdigyTM collection.  It is a line of shapewear tank tops and tee shirts that have built-in compression for the core region.  Suck that gut in!  It’s discreet design conceals the compression panel under the fitted tank top or tee shirt.  The compression panel start underneath the bust line and extends to just below the torso.  This way you can choose your own bra that actually fits you instead of trying to go with an attached shelf bra that may not fit the girls properly!014-10x

All sizes are available in a many colors and patterns.  They even have long-sleeved tees available for the Fall season! You’ll look and feel noticeably trimmer and sleeker, but no one will know what you got going on for real under there!

Tres Sleek is also proud to debut BRAdigyTM, a new line of shapewear bras and camisoles specifically designed to maximize comfort without compromising style.  BRAdigyTM bras shape and support breasts without the use of clasps or wires. Designed in the style and comfort of a favorite tank top, this new breed of bra features thicker straps and a slightly higher-cut neckline meant to minimize spillover of cleavage and underarm flesh.

They have a variety of colors to choose from, this is one bra whose straps don’t need to be concealed, and can even peek out from under a V-neck! I totally need one of these!  Tres Sleek, I would love to try this out!09-10x

Tres Sleek wants to give one reader of Not So Average Mama their choice of the TankTeeni or BRAdigy!  I totally wish I could win this one!

Main Entry: Tell me why you need and like the Tankteeni or Bradigy. Let me know which is your favorite!

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This giveaway will end Monday, August 3, 2009


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The Party Isn’t Over

Thursday, July 16th, 2009

So due to some not so nice stuff going on, my party is being extended!  I still have stuff to share and just didn’t get to it.  Please hang tight and know that I didn’t ditch anyone.  Sometimes life is unpredictable and I always seem to get dealt a bad hand.  If I disappear don’t despair!  I will be back shortly!

Expect sporadic blogging over the next week!

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So About That Honeymoon…

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

THIS GIVEAWAY IS NOW CLOSED!

This is a post about an adult subject and adult product.  If you are easily offended or under 18 please do not read on…..

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OK, so I am assuming if you scrolled down to this point then you probably have sex.  I mean…if your married and/or have children I am pretty much betting on the fact that you have sex.

lovebagWell, have you heard of EdenFantasys?  EdenFantasys is an online adult store.  They sell adult toys as well as massage oils, candles, lingerie, etc.  You can find anything you could imagine there and all at good affordable prices.  I was amazed at how huge the selection was!  Seriously, anything you want…I am willing to bet they have it!  Need a sex swing? They got them!

EdenFantasys was nice enough to send me a little gift to check out.  Think Honeymoon style.  Everything came contained in this awesome zippered Heart shaped bag.  It’s big enough to contain everything you would need for a night of fun.  I can’t comment on everything it came with because we have not used everything yet.  Also, I’m not sharing all those personal goodies with y’all.

sex_toys_pd916000I can tell you that we have used some of the products such as the lotto tickets.  The lotto tickets were a lot of fun.  You just scratch off something in each row and do what it says.  Simple and fun to get things started.  We also have used the warming and edible massage lotions, as well as the reusable heart warming pad.  The heart warming pad is really cool because it requires no cords or batteries and can be used again and again.  The heart cock ring is pretty cool and they even send a special Toy Cleaner to use to keep everything sanitary.  There was so much in this kit, that like I said…we haven’t even gotten to it all yet.  I will say… the only thing I was not thrilled with was the waterproof pocket rocket.  There is not an adjustable speed and that thing was just too much for me. For someone else that enjoys vibrators they may love it, but it is just not for me.

My experience ordering from EdenFantasys was very professional and discreet.  Everything came packaged nicely without a hint of where it was from or what it contained.

You can purchase your own Bag of Love for $56.99!

This would be a perfect bachelorette party gift!  The bride could just bring her bag with her on the honeymoon!  Adult gifts are always a hit!

EdenFantasys is giving one reader a $25 Gift Certificate to use on anything in their shop!

Main Entry: Leave me a tip on how you keep the spark alive in your relationship!

Want more chances?

Bonus Entries: You must complete the main entry firstPlease leave a comment for each entry!

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This giveaway ends August 21, 2009


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The Simple Stencil

Tuesday, July 14th, 2009

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WINNER IS COMMENT #45!

simplestencilWhat better way to show your love than to display it on your walls! From your favorite quote to your family name, The Simple Stencil has you covered!

Recently I ordered from The Simple Stencil Wedding Center.  The selection and prices are just fantastic! I ordered several things and am impressed with it all.

I wanted to post pics and video of me applying them to our walls but we are moving!  I don’t want to put them up and leave them behind.  So, I will make another post about them when I put them up.howdoilove

The quotes you can purchase are so beautiful and I can not wait to get mine up!  I also ordered a beautiful small Celtic cross to represent our heritage and a vintage style monogram.

Not only do they make signs for your walls that portray your love and devotion to your family…they also make just married signs for the car!  I got one to put on our truck window!

When you have a wedding you will need directional signs to let people know where to go, they offer this service as well!  This is such a wonderful company and they have excellent customer service.

I am thrilled to be able to offer one lucky reader the chance to order any wedding product or a product of the winners choice up to $50!

Main Entry: Visit The Simple Stencil Wedding Center.  Browse around the site, then come back here and comment telling me something you would love to order and have. Trust me, there is more than just wedding products!

Bonus Entries: Main Entry must be completed first. Please leave a separate comment for each task you complete!

  • Follow me @stitchblade and follow The Simple Stencil @SimpleStencils on twitter.  Leave a comment with your twitter id.
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This giveaway will end August 25, 2009!

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I Wanted To Say…

Sunday, July 5th, 2009

July 4th 2009I wanted to say I hope you all had a wonderful 4th!

We spent ours with family and had a great time.  I didn’t blog today, er….yesterday.  Its 12:59 am Monday now.  Back on track in a few hours with more “Getting Hitched” giveaways!

bloggerraceWatch for me in the Amazing Blogger Race this week!  I succeeded through the first challenges that were given to us Friday.  I know it will only get harder, and my time this week will be hard to come by.  I may need some help from time to time to complete challenges. Follow me on twitter @stitchblade and help this mama out!

I have a ton more photos from the 4th and will try to get those posted tomorrow.  G’night!


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Frazzled Moms’ Devotions to Go

Friday, July 3rd, 2009

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As part of my “Getting Hitched” series I am focusing on families as well.  They are part of the whole “Getting Hitched” thing too ya know!  So, I want to tell you about a book I recently read called “Frazzled Moms’ Devotions to Go” written by Rochelle Valasek, from the Moms’ Devotions to Go Series.

I’m a mother to 3 girls that I love dearly, but quite honestly…sometimes I want to scream for everyone in this house including the J-man to leave me the heck alone for 5 min! Seriously, I want to have a chance to go poop all by myself.  I want to shower for more than 2 min and maybe even shave my legs!  When I get in these Frazzled Mommy moments I feel horrible. I love them all.  It’s nice to know that pretty much every mom gets like that.devotions

Frazzled Moms’ Devotions To Go (978-0-9776500-9-5) covers all the ?mommy types.? From scripture meditations and devotions to activities to build their relationship with God, their family and friends, and the stranger in the mirror, this devotional will touch mothers of all ages. Frazzled Moms touches on real issues with laughter and encouragement. It leaves the reader enlightened and feeling God?s presence and peace. The prayer for each day is an example of real prayers. Not flowery ones that you find in most devotionals. This shows the readers that they can speak with God in their own voice; there is not a special way to speak with God, just be that child that He calls for. This devotional is unique compared to the others because it reaches all types of moms, with all types of needs.

This book seriously made me feel better. When I do get a moment to actually have some peace, I can read a little here and there. There are stories, ideas and activities to calm your spirit.

Being a frazzled mom is not uncommon. We are the majority.  We are the moms that everyone thinks has it together, and we do…but we are still allowed to have a freak out once in awhile too!

I have been sent some copies of the book to give away in anyway I choose.  I am going to give 2 away here on the site.  The other 3 I am sharing with some local moms that I think would appreciate them.

WIN IT

Main Entry: Browse the Devotions to Go titles and tell me what other one you would like to read.  Link me to it in a comment here.

Bonus Entries: After completing the main entry you can do any or all of the following.  Each task earns you another entry, so be sure to comment separately for each one!

  • Blog about this giveaway with a link!  Then come comment here with the link to your post.
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  • Send an email to your friends and family about this giveaway and CC it to me: Brandy [at] Notsoaveragemama [dot] com

This Giveaway will end on August 4, 2009.

There will be 2 winners!


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Sentimental Silver

Thursday, July 2nd, 2009

Comments are now closed. I will announce a winner soon!

Sentimental Silver uses pure silver (.999%) to create beautiful pendants. They are completely handmade using recycled silver.sentimental-silver-recycled-silver-jewelryEach pendant is customized with your text of choice – so you could use this as a beautiful custom keepsake with your wedding date! You could also have it customized with your husband’s and child’s name. There is no limit to what you could have made at Sentimental Silver!Sentimenal_Jewelry

“Some of my earliest memories are of playing dress up with my Grandmother’s jewelry, and over 30 years later I still find playing dress up just as much fun” says Christi Farr Johnstone, owner of Sentimental Silver ®.

With a lifelong love of crafts, fashion, art, design and all things girly, Christi started Sentimental Silver ® in 2005 and launched her website, www.sentimentalsilver.com, in June 2006. Christi has created a full line of jewelry that women will find versatile and easy to wear for casual or formal occasions. She has combined her lifelong love of crafts and fashion to design pieces that women of all ages can enjoy.

Christi lives in Phoenix (she’s a fourth generation native) with her husband Rick and daughter Isabella.

Christi want’s to give one reader a Personalized Tiny Tag ($35 Value).  She is also giving my readers 20% off any order with the coupon code “SALE”.

Want to win?

Main Entry: Visit Sentimental Silver and browse the site.  Come back here and leave a comment telling me what you liked best.

Bonus Entries!

  • Follow Sentimental Silver and me on Twitter, then tweet this: “@stitchblade @SentimentalSilv Great Giveaway http://tinyurl.com/m3yhvk” -Then comment here with the Tweet URL.
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This giveaway ends on July 23, 2009


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Peace, Love, Fame Giveaway

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009

This giveaway has ended!

Today is the kick off of “Getting Hitched”

Getting Hitched requires us women to try and keep the peace!  Yes, I am known to run off at the mouth quite a bit.  But seriously, choose your battles is a good rule to follow.

Make it known that you want Peace, Love and Fame with this shirt from Born Famous Couture!bornfamousBe different. Be stylish. Be BORN FAMOUS.

Veteran designer Todd Rosen (formerly of Lipstick Bandits) has joined forces with Stony Apparel to create and design Born Famous Couture. Born Famous emits glitz and glamour at an affordable price.

Using 5 ounce cotton light weight jersey and fleece that is so super soft. Born Famous Couture is now available nationally at Dillard’s, Hot Topic, and other specialty stores nationwide. Prices range from $24 to $33. bornfamous2This shirt is perfect for hot weather. Very high quality light weight material makes this a great summer shirt.  It has a very deep V-neck to show off the girls! The shirt is a very long cut that is very in right now.

Size for the giveaway is a S/M.  It would make a great addition to your Hot Mama summer wardrobe!

Main Entry: Check out the line and tell me your favorite piece in a comment!

Bonus Entries:

  • Grab my “Getting Hitched” Button and add it to your website, leave a comment for this entry linking me to where you posted the button.
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Ends August 1st 2009!


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“Getting Hitched” Starts Next Week!

Sunday, June 28th, 2009

getting_hitchedMy “Getting Hitched” series starts next week!  I still have room for more sponsors in week 2! Please contact me ASAP if you want to be in on this.

All sponsors will be featured! Reviews, giveaways…tons of fun! Your site and business will receive awesome traffic!

Things that will fit in with the theme would be:

  • anything for a family
  • a woman
  • a man
  • a new home
  • love
  • marriage
  • romance
  • sex
  • a party
  • a wedding

I would be super happy if you posted the button on your site!  You can grab the code in the sidebar under current giveaways.  THANKS!


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Getting HITCHED at Not So Average Mama

Thursday, June 11th, 2009

getting_hitchedYep!  Anything and everything to do with getting hitched! From July 1st until July 15th it’s a party!  I have a lot of rad companies getting in on this and I am still looking for more! If you would like to participate and draw more attention to your product please contact me! I would love to find some work at home Moms that want to get more attention!

All sponsors will be featured! Reviews, giveaways…tons of fun!  Your site and business will receive awesome traffic!

Things that will fit in with the theme would be:

  • anything for a family
  • a woman
  • a man
  • a new home
  • love
  • marriage
  • romance
  • sex
  • a party
  • a wedding

You get the picture?

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